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i am surrounded by people who are in relationships -- some are happy, some are extremely happy but most are tired and want to call it quits. 

when it comes to relationships, when do we rise the white flag?

hey maybe that can be my poll question for my show tomorrow. but for the sake of doing something at 1:46 AM (Manila Time), i'll speculate on some answers.

speculate because i know nothing of the matter first-hand. well, maybe i do. but a 5-day relationship can hardly be considered as one. not by me. so...

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Isn't love everything when it comes to relationship? People may disagree on that but the way I see it, love has with it everything else, the recipes and ingredients for a happy ever after story -- trust, respect, sugar, spice and everything nice. Loosing one ingredient makes the concoction different. it's like playing Xanga, one wrong block and the tower falls over.

when it comes to surrendering, i guess it's safe to say that the safest you can say adios to a relationship is when the tower falls over, i mean when love is gone. that's idealistic, i know. some people stay in a relationship because of mere convenience or worse, the dough. how i pity them. it's worse than being single. 

say goodbye when it is time to say goodbye. this is the one situation where "kung may tiaga, may nilaga" does not apply. be strong enough to know when to let go. holding on may just drag you both down. until you get sucked into a vortex and you end up in Dalmasca being chased by the Imperial Guards sent by the Consul and you end up joining Vaan's party. WTFF12! I'm not making sense anymore.

but whether you let go or stay, be firm. it's gonna be shit. you should have known that before you entered the relationship. but it'll be over. don't worry, you get a "BE EMO" pass for a week.

after a week and you're still not okay, then WHY THE F DID YOU DO IT?!